tuanpumpkins:

please start realizing that some of the idols don’t understand fandom jokes (ex: ”i hate you”, “delete” etc). sure we all made such jokes at times on our own blogs or twitter but please be reminded to try not to directly mention them on twitter / comment on their instagram with such “jokes”. some of these idol don’t understand the jokes and their feelings are actually hurt by them. a joke is something that makes someone laugh, if an idol actually feel uncomfortable by that “joke”. it is actually no longer a joke and time to stop saying it to them.

sure, some of you may think that it is “not so deep” / “they should be used to seeing such jokes” but before thinking of them as idols please think of them as humans. some of them are around the same age as us, put yourself in their shoes. what makes idols so different from us? just because they are in the spotlight doesn’t mean that they don’t get hurt. they have feelings and self esteem too.